
I guess there needs to be some perks with the job... :bump:
If I'm clueless then prove it. Did you pay any attention to what I said? It isn't a safety issue and it couldn't possibly be. So the only "favor he'd be doing for his family" by buying a 3/4 ton is subjecting them to an unreliable POS.
First off, banning you is not a "perk" of any kind, I would have said the same thing to you if you could not have a civil conversation with another member without going ape-shit and yelling at them. Yes, I read your post and many more just like them and I often wonder where you towing wizards come up with your so called facts. Toyota (and all other manufacturers) don't put ratings on vehicles so they they can deny warranty claims. Will they deny a claim if they find out you were driving around 800 pounds over payload; probably.
They do it because they know what each component on the vehicle is designed to tolerate and therefore (this is the important part) how much liability they are willing to take on. When manufacturers put those pretty little stickers on your vehicle and then dedicate 20 pages in the owner's manual to explain those numbers what they are doing is resolving themselves of liability when someone, such as yourself, decides to intentionally go beyond those numbers because you are smarter than the engineers who designed the vehicle. You seem to think that upgrading suspension overcomes all evils. Meanwhile, your front axle is rated for 4000 pounds and your rear axle is rated for 4150 pounds, your wheel bearings are designed for the max weight rating of the truck, your brakes were specifically engineered to stop the max weight rating of the truck....on and on.
You don't have to buy into it, you don't have to believe it, I don't really care. However, when someone asks a question like this it is ridiculous how the towing wizards go off on those of us who do understand the numbers and the liability and we are called the tow police. Some common sense would go a long way here. There is a reason they sell trucks that are "bigger" and more capable than the Tundra and other 1/2 ton trucks. Yes, in most states (maybe all of them but I suspect CA has some rules) personal vehicles are not inspected and do not require permits in order to tow, however, it is only a matter of time before we all have to get permits and inspections and be subjected to similar rules as commercial drivers because the overloading of pickup trucks is becoming more and more common. I am not the "tow police" and don't pretend to be but people who are new to the game deserve to hear both sides and not just assume that the first guy that says "it towed the space shuttle" is a genius who should be followed.
Best of luck with your Tundra and your payload/towing. The odds say you will never have a problem. Personally, I don't like playing the odds with my life, my families life or others. My two cents for you to ignore.