Welcome , for me the RW would be the choice based on the wheels and the black interior , I am not a fan of the trd package wheels, the 2013 rw now can be gotten with the limited package so they are very close in options , good luck
Welcome to the forum. TRD off-road wheel is one of my favorite wheels, one of the reasons why I went with the TRD package. Also I didn't like the RW lacking some skid plate (for 2010). They were also lacking in info button (mpg gauge, etc.). I am not sure what's the case with 2013 models though.
If you are planning to change everything out, I would just get an SR5. Then you won't feel guilty about changing out suspension, wheels, etc.
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