Ok guy, came here for friendly advise and to see what others have done.
Dont really need some guy commenting with bullish like you have been doing.
But I will be the bigger man and walk away.
You were given friendly advise, 'er I mean advice.
The instructions read to use existing OEM bushings and nuts.
Since you tossed yours, all you'd have to do is buy some more.
But for some reason that isn't acceptable to you.
I doubt they will warrant the shock since you installed it improperly in the first place.
Did you really install a moving metal to metal suspension part without a bushing?
How did you think that was going to turn out?
BTW you might have found your answer in here:
http://www.tundratalk.net/forums/tundra-suspension-talk/580209-bilstein-5160-discussion.html
5100 rears use the same hardware, OEM.
http://www.tundratalk.net/forums/tundra-suspension-talk/659906-rear-bilstein-5100-install.html
You might want to research having a bit of a sense of humor and lighten up Francis.
You been on this forum for 6 years, you should know by now members often kid around and tease one another.
Good luck sugar..:x
Now walk away..